What Is Polyamory Really All About?
The question is no so much whether to love more than one, but whether to have multiple partners sequentially or at the same time.read more
View ArticleNonmarital Sex and the Generation Gap
My mother ended up choosing the guy who insisted on remaining friendly with his ex-wife instead of joining a triad, but I found the whole situation indicative of a rapidly changing relationship...
View ArticlePolyamory and Women's Orgasms
While many men fantasize about how wonderful it would be to have two women in bed, many become too excited or too confused to take full advantage of the opportunity in real life. read more
View ArticlePolyamory in India: Then and Now
The Ghotul is thought to be a very ancient institution where young people are taught everything from crafts to ethics to farming to the arts of love. In some villages, all the young people, both girls...
View ArticleThe New Monogamy
The new monogamy recognizes that commitment and fidelity may be more fluid than we once thought. The key to making it work is honesty in making implicit assumptions about what marriage means explicit...
View ArticleWhy Do People Choose Polyamory?
Just as there are many different forms a polyamorous relationship can take, there are many different reasons people choose polyamory. We’re not always conscious of the reasons we do things, and...
View ArticleSex, Polyamory, and the Wisdom of the Body
What is the biological and emotional truth about polyamory?read more
View ArticleThe Downside of Polyamory
While polyamory sometimes has advantages over enforced monogamy, polyamory can present numerous problems of its own. In the interest of full disclosure to those who rightly suspect that polyamory can...
View ArticleThe Upside of Polyamory
XXIs polyamory just another word for promiscuity, or does it have social, moral, and ecological value?read more
View ArticlePolyamory and Children
Most of the young adults I know who were raised in child-centered polyamorous families end up giving a higher priority to bonding and sustained intimacy than to freedom when forced to choose.read more
View ArticlePolyamory and Sex Addiction
It's easy to justify sexual obsession by calling it polyamory. A handful of sex addicts can wreak havoc in a community, especially when people are still operating out of conditioning that forbids the...
View ArticleShameless: A Review of an Ordinary Woman's Sexual Memoir
How one woman satisfied her sexual desires without having a secret affair, getting divorced, or opening up her marriage.read more
View ArticleBeyond Polyamory
Polyamory can bring you face to face with exactly what you don't want to see. Whether or not this is a good thing depends upon your purpose in choosing it.read more
View ArticleWhy Open Marriages Sometimes Work
I am the first to admit that polyamorous relationships have their fair share of dysfunction, but there are also many healthy and happy open marriages. read more
View ArticlePolyamory without Tears
Early on, I realized that in order to really understand what jealousy is, how it operates, and to what end, I would have to examine my own inner process. If you too want to understand jealousy, I...
View ArticleWhat Is Love?
Love is a force of nature. However much we may want to, we can not command, demand, or disappear love, any more than we can command the moon and the stars and the wind and the rain to come and go...
View ArticleGroup Marriage and the Future of the Family
With the traditional nuclear family well on its way to extinction, we are faced with a question of critical importance: who will mind the children? read more
View ArticleInner Marriage
Are you paying lip service to the disconcerting truth that in order to find lasting happiness with a partner, you must first create a harmonious relationship with the Beloved within? For generations,...
View ArticlePolyamory: Married and Dating
Showtime's new reality series, Polyamory: Married and Dating is a far better portrayal of polyamory than I feared and not as good as I had hoped, judging from the first episode, which aired July 12....
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